families have good intentions when they adopt a dog, but often the pet dog just isn’t a good fit.
I wrote a post about returning a rescue or shelter dog, and the following is a certain example of a family that chose to return a dog due to separation anxiety.
Karen Tong said she adopted a 3-year-old chocolate lab mix through a local rescue group and named him Sundance. They are visualized together below.
“He was a great pet dog and well behaved, but when we left the house, he experienced severe separation anxiety and was destructive,” she said.
She tried crating him in a metal crate, but he was able to bend the bars and escape. One day, he escaped and then clawed and chewed his way through the bedroom door.
“There was about $1,000 of damage to our home that night, including having to replace an entire bedroom of berber carpet,” she said.
“Since we both worked full time, we realized that we didn’t have what this pet dog needed. We couldn’t stay home with him all the time, and we didn’t have, or want, another pet dog for company.”
Returning a rescue dog
Because of Sundance’s severe separation anxiety, Tong realized they didn’t have the time or resources he needed.
“We serviced it with him over a week or so, but the destruction became too much,” she said. “Once the crate couldn’t keep him safe, we were concerned about him hurting himself when we were at work.”
She ended up returning Sundance to the rescue so the group could find him a family to better suit his needs.
“We were really heartbroken and felt like total failures,” she said.
Luckily, the group was able to find Sundance a new home with another pet dog and a stay-at-home mom.
“He has lots of company.”
Finding the ideal dog
A month or so later, Tong was asked to foster another chocolate lab through the same rescue group. He was about 6 years old. (And points to this rescue group for encouraging her to consider a different dog!)
After a month or so, she made a decision to make it official and adopt the dog, who she named Chip (pictured below).
“He’s still with us and is about 14-and-a-half years old now!” she said, adding that Chip was “so worth the wait.”
Advice for others in a similar situation
No matter how you obtain a dog, Tong suggests you try to get as much history about the pet dog as you can before adopting. She also recommends you try fostering the pet dog first if possible.
“But also, be realistic,” she said. “If you can’t give the pet dog what it needs, then it’s not fair to keep it.”
In hindsight, she said she’s thankful she gave Sundance back to the rescue so the group could swiftly find him the home he needed.
Plus, returning Sundance led her to Chip.
“I’m so thankful we ended up adopting a middle-age pet dog who is now a relaxed, mellow senior lab,” she said. “He is the best pet for us.”
Have any of you ever had to return a rescue dog?
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